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Resources for Couples

Healthy and happy relationships don’t happen on their own.

Discover helpful resources to better understand and actively shape your relationship:

  • Books: Recommendations on EFT, attachment, and relationship dynamics

  • Questionnaires: Preparation for your couples therapy

  • Audiobooks & Videos: Inspiration and practical guidance for your partnership

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Relationship books

These three works are considered essential reading if you want to strengthen and deepen your relationship sustainably

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Hold me tight
Susan Johnson

This book is an excellent introduction to understanding the negative dynamics in your relationship and learning how to regain control.

The seven conversations form the foundation for the key focuses of couples therapy and help you prepare for our sessions.

I recommend it as essential reading for all couples beginning therapy.

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Wir Beide
Kallos-Lilly & Fitzgerald

This handbook helps you reflect on your own attachment style and better understand its impact on your relationship. It also allows you to understand the role of your emotions in the negative cycle and discover how to regain control over them.

I recommend this book for couples who truly want to improve their relationship and are willing to engage in some self-study and personal work to achieve this.

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What happend to you?
Perry & Winfrey

This book explains how our brain processes experiences and the profound impact this has on our ability to regulate emotions and function in a healthy way, especially in relationships. It helps us understand on a deep level why we and others (including our partners) respond the way we do.

This book is essential reading for couples experiencing intense conflict or a negative cycle, or for individuals who have directly or indirectly experienced trauma through their parents or grandparents.

Videos on EFT & Couples Therapy

Whatch the following videos together with your partner.

Was ist Emotionsfokussierte Paartherapie?
01:30
Bindungsstile, negative Muster und wie wir durch neue Erfahrungen in EFT Liebe zum Tanzen lernen.
05:10
Love Sense: from Infant to Adult (Sue Johnson and Ed Tronick)
11:28
Still Face Experiment  Dr  Edward Tronick
02:49
Paul Greenman - Welche Gefühle wirklich hinter Beziehungsproblemen stehen
22:16
Prof. Dr. Paul Greenman - Die Sprache der Liebe - EFT nach Dr. Sue Johnson
15:37
Brené Brown on Empathy
02:53
(German)Trauma and the nervous system a Polyvagal perspective with German Subtitles.
09:07
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